You say you can make your life whatever you want it to be......Yes ~but you cant force something that isnt meant to be forced....you cant force someone to love you..especially if that someone may not even exist????
Hmmmmmm.....
The Love Chef
Chakric Channeling, Part 4(c):
Alchemical Kinetics
Love is an alchemical reaction
Put the right kind of energy in,
and the reaction releases more energy than you had before
Think of Love like cooking. Cooking is based on chemistry, but the food tastes much better if it is prepared with care..
Likewise, there are chemicals that help make the feeling of Love, but Love needs an alchemical reaction too for true spiritual warmth. Here is a way to understand the alchemy of love..
At its basis, a solitary individual is like a single atom of hydrogen: small, volatile, and easily charged up with energy..
Similarly, a couple in perfect harmonious love is like helium: extremely stable and unreactive with other molecules..
If we lived in early biblical times, the chemistry of successful relationships would be that simple! However the modern world is more complicated. Couples do not exist in isolation, but are surrounded by other couples and other social structures. Some lovers are successful in isolating themselves from society and external forces which put tension on the relationship. But the effort to do so can be immense..
True, 'fairytale marriages' do exist. Robin Lee Graham may be one of the few people in the modern world who has a fairytale marriage. He left home at the age of 16 to sail around the globe in a 24-foot yacht. There is an autobiography and docudrama film about it..
It took almost two years. On the island of Fiji, he met Patti Ratterree. They fell in love and soon married. After the romantic meeting on an extremely challenging adventure, they had some trouble later settling into civilization. to recapture the adventure, they moved to Alaska and built a log cabin. Apparently the pioneering worked for them, and they now are Grandparents in Montana..
But for most of us in the modern world, the recipe for eternal love is not so simple. Oh, we may feel like we're in a boat all alone in the ocean, weathering a dangerous storm; but Robin Graham had a port where there was safety and a romantic beach to meet the love of his life, after being totally alone at sea. For the rest of us, we are surrounded by complicated world problems and relationships from which there is rarely a safe port of call, and creating the unique relationship which lasts a lifetime takes much more effort to find. So cooking up the perfect relationship gets more complicated! We need to put real effort into making the relationship special..
Making a long-lasting relationship is more like cooking than chemistry.
Energy (like from a stove) helps, but it needs some loving energy put in~it's the love that makes the result more palatable. Nevertheless at its basis, love is an alchemical reaction..
To fall in love (the love known as eros), one person may be more like the metal sodium, and the other more like chlorine. Mix them together with a little water, and it makes sodium chloride - salt - the basis of all life. When we meet another person and salt forms immediately, it can be an explosive experience-jast as when mixing sodium and chlorine to make salt..
But sometimes there is not enough salt from the initial encounter for the relationship to survive. From an alchemical perspective, our personalities are in continual flux, so the spiritual chemistry may not be perfect at the time we meet the other person. Just as in cooking and chemistry, we have to put more energy into the relationship to make the chemistry work. Sometimes another person can act as a catalyst. Sometimes we need jostling souls around us to push us together by a kind of 'Brownian motion' (when particles bump into each other and move each other around in an apparently random pattern) so that the reaction can happen..
That's what can happen at a dance, for example. It can happen in any place where there are many people. But from an alchemical point of view, the forces 'moving' us are not really physical and motion is not really spatial. Rather, we are being moved by the emotional energies around us, so being in a place with people who care about us matters more than large amounts of physical movement (the physical movement can help too, but it is not so important).
And, the people should be happy too!
A small number of people who care alot are much better than a larged number of people who care relatively little..
We also have to put our own energy a relationship. But again, the energy is more spiritual than physical (although the physical effort matters too). For example, we need to demonstrate we are willing to make effort for the other person; respect the other person; do things they like which we might not like; and keep our promises. If there is such strengths in our own intention, then the spiritual bond is also strong, and the love is enduring..
If our intention is weak, then the relationship can break down. When the alchemical connection starts to break down, we experience the weakening bond as pain. Moreover, the chemistry of our spirit changes, and it becomes more difficult for us to form a spiritual connection again, sometimes for a long time. It is important to value the early connections in life, as they are the most durable and persistent..
When the bond is forming, for a while there is an 'emotional honeymoon,' during which the relationship releases far more energy than either person had at the start. This intoxicating experience, usually up to two years in length, is so intense that sometimes people believe that the relationship ends when the emotional honeymoon ends. However, if the partners put the right energies into the initial reaction, then a deeper and more lasting love emerges after the fading of the initial intoxication. This deeper love fulfills and perpetuates.
This deeper love is the fundament of alchemy, whose objective is to find the philosoophers stone that turns the heavy lead of base life into the gold of eternal joy. Would that we all could know such joy each day the sun rises, and at night sleep knowing it is there for us always..
E L Meyer
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